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Post by iluvaslan on Jun 9, 2006 11:31:10 GMT -5
my friends older boyfriend is a total jerk. he flirts with me in front of her imageine him when she's not around. she just puts up with the flirting and is like thats just the way he is. but both myself and our other chick friend agree that he's got to go. how do we convince her to lose the loser? i don't want her to get hurt but it mya be to late for that
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Post by Z on Jun 9, 2006 11:41:58 GMT -5
you do realize that you have just revealed your gender by posting this.
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Post by Z on Jun 9, 2006 11:51:40 GMT -5
But it does not matter.
i already knew.
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Post by The Viper on Jun 9, 2006 13:14:36 GMT -5
one word OUCH!
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Post by Z on Jun 9, 2006 13:32:14 GMT -5
*evil laughter*
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Post by Courtney Solo on Jun 9, 2006 16:40:08 GMT -5
OK, I think that you should explain the situation from your POV, but not rub it in her face. Put the facts in front of her gently, and convince her that he is a total jerk with those facts. Why should she have a guy that is obviously not loyal to her? C S
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Post by The Viper on Jun 9, 2006 18:56:06 GMT -5
Yeah i agree with court on this. It sounds like the to of them are already close and that you and the other girl (with the guy) are close. Unfortunately by this time somebody's feelings are going to get hurt. Now one more thing i would add is do NOT do this alone. Take some of her other CLOSE FEMALE friends with you and together talk to her. I would not do it alone just cause it is you Vs her and in those situations NOBODY comes out happy and most of the time both of your feelings get hurt, and the LAST thing you want to do is mess up yawls friendship. Cause it might be all she has after she gets through this. Finally, pray and pray HARD!! i can NOT stress that enough.
hope this helps, Nathan
P.S. Has ANYBODY talked to the guy about this, and if so what did he say?
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Post by Courtney Solo on Jun 9, 2006 21:04:41 GMT -5
LOL, Nathan actually sounds like he knows what he's talking about.
Darn, I'm tempted to go edit his spelling...
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Post by The Viper on Jun 9, 2006 21:06:38 GMT -5
well of coarse i do all you have to have done is get in a fight and this sounds like a situation your in court ;D Happy about the spelling now?
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Post by Courtney Solo on Jul 26, 2006 20:40:32 GMT -5
I don't have a friend who has an older boyfriend who flirts with me. I've just had an older boyfriend. And now there's another one. But I'm done with guys for now. LOL.
I'm not in a situation (like that) anymore.
Guess what I did? Naw, I'll save it for the 'Blonde Moments' thread.
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Post by The Viper on Aug 1, 2006 17:37:43 GMT -5
lol
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Post by Cassa Solo on Sept 14, 2006 16:29:49 GMT -5
*sigh*Some one help me!!! i'm getting....*whispers*....bored.*phyco musics play in the backround*
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Post by Courtney Solo on Sept 14, 2006 20:54:40 GMT -5
You could add your two cents ...
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Post by Dorian Ravencroft on Sept 14, 2006 22:15:18 GMT -5
well, this problem is probally over by now.
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Post by Cassa Solo on Sept 15, 2006 2:09:17 GMT -5
Yes,that and I have never been in quite the same situation.I've had those two crappy boyfreinds but I didn't need anyone to point the fact out to me that they were total jerks.
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Post by Courtney Solo on Sept 15, 2006 17:44:38 GMT -5
LOL, amen.
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Post by Cassa Solo on Sept 15, 2006 18:32:30 GMT -5
I've sworn not to date again until i'm fourteen,sixteen, maybe eighteen.
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Post by Courtney Solo on Sept 16, 2006 18:05:44 GMT -5
Good idea.
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Post by Cassa Solo on Sept 17, 2006 0:50:44 GMT -5
how 'bout you?
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Post by Dorian Ravencroft on Sept 18, 2006 11:09:20 GMT -5
shes "sorta" dating right now you know.
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Post by Cassa Solo on Sept 18, 2006 19:03:35 GMT -5
I asked her, but okay. ;P I'd rather get dumped as a adult or teen than as a kid.Courtney probably knows more about relationships than i do....
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Post by Dorian Ravencroft on Sept 18, 2006 21:56:49 GMT -5
I doubt it....you said you had two boy freinds. Shes sorta had two...sorta.....more like one....
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Post by Cassa Solo on Sept 20, 2006 1:21:50 GMT -5
I'm saying she probabaly hasn't made my mistakes.Besides if she only had one than she hasn't hurt as much as I have.
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Post by Dorian Ravencroft on Sept 20, 2006 18:02:38 GMT -5
hmmm bad relationship crap.... *this phenomina effects 99.9 percent of all americans* *the other one percent never gets dumped because they never have a relationship* *chough some one whos name starts with "N" cough* not its not nathan............
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Post by Cassa Solo on Sept 21, 2006 1:33:22 GMT -5
*thinks* I don't know if your being sarcastic or not.Either way i don't care considering the fact that you it's most likely something to not care about....
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Post by Dorian Ravencroft on Sept 21, 2006 12:55:01 GMT -5
yep...
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